QUALITIES OF A MATURED MAN, IN ANY RELATIONSHIP




#LADIES...
Every man has their qualities, they are unique in their own ways... You can't get the best from RELATIONSHIP if you keep leaving them, stop comparing your previous relationships with your present one, causing the future relationship to be in total uncertainty!!!
Not all men are the same, and you're just not the first to experience hurts and pain!!... Everyone does, some persons did!!!!!...

The main reasons why you should leave a RELATIONSHIP...

1.) IMMATURITY: some men are just babies... Always asking for more, even when you've given them your all... They like acquiring every girl they come across.. always crying over every mistakes you make!!!... And please stop dating 22-27 year old boys, 80% of them can't produce maturity... And have not defined themselves yet!!

2.) INCAPACITY: some men are literally kids when it comes to sustainability... Relationship to them is fun and esctacy... No capacity to accommodate a woman and sustain her for the rest of his life... Always giving excuses when it comes to temperament!!... Doesn't have a steady income and yet desires to keep women within reach!!..

3.) SEXUAL DEMANDS: my dear, you are not a whore and definitely your mum didn't raise you to dish out your body at every provocation of a man's sexual urge... If he constantly asks for sex, then you are currently the free whore he's acquired...

4.) UNDEFINED RELATIONSHIP: this is the worst kind of relationships.. when you meet a guy for the first time, it's not a crime to ask where the relationship will head to, stop thinking it's too early when you should set the basics right... If he doesn't know where you stand from the beginning he won't mind playing ignorant when the time is right!!!... Every man you meet should know your standard and your rights before you give your heart to them... The timing of a woman differs from that of a man... A man can get married at 35 and still produce 35 kids, a woman's chances of producing 5 kids from the age of 35 is at 40%... So, you better define what you're doing with him before menopause starts creeping in gradually...

5.) MINDSET: if a man's mindset is solely based on relationships and not MARRIAGE, then you're just wasting your time and age!!.. this mindsets are sometimes as a result of the friendships he keeps!... Mindset is one of the easiest part of the soul that is easily influenced... Once he starts thinking you as the "OTHER LADIES" definitely he will start acting like other MEN!!!!...

#BUT_LADIES...
When you meet a man who's ready and treats you like a Queen, don't lose him...there is no better man out there!!!... Stick to him, pray for him...

When it comes to RELATIONSHIPS everyone claims perfection and maturity...
Capacity and Maturity are so important in choosing who to marry...
Some of us here have already read the 22-27 age range I mentioned and have already concluded it doesn't matter....
Marriage isn't about ATTITUDE alone!!!... Its about Capacity too!!!... If you are not matured FINANCIALLY, MENTALLY and SPIRITUALLY, please drop that mindset that age is not a criteria... You need to be built up to build up someone else!
Some men of 28-35 that acts IMMATURE in relationship is simply IMMATURE, they don't have the capacity yet to accommodate anyone...
Relationship is a business that requires ATTENTION, SELFLESSNESS, SPIRITUAL GROWTH and FINANCIAL UPLIFTMENT... When you see a boy in relationship you'd know he's still a boy...
It doesn't Matter how much maturity he exhibits in character, once he doesn't have the capacity... He still needs to grow up in those area..

Responsibility comes in diverse ways!!!.... A man can be taking care of his family doesn't mean he's responsible enough to settle down in marriage...
Providing for your girlfriend isn't enough criteria that you'd be matured...
Maturity isn't about responsibility alone...
The word responsibility simply means "respond-to-abilities"... That means you have to be SPIRITUALLY balanced, character balanced, financial balanced and mentally balanced before you enter into marriage... And with age comes with experience... You'd make mistakes at 22-27 that's permitted cause that's the right time to make mistakes and learn.. and that's where growth comes in, but when a man continues making mistakes till 35, he has character problem and should be considered incapable of achieving results and feats..

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