DO I TELL MY BOYFRIEND EVERYTHING?

Hello Golden! Long post alert!!!
Anonymous pls, straight to why am writing you.
I need your prompt response on this...

So there's this guy I met at my cousins place!
September 2017.
Nigga is ALL IN ONE!!!

Dark skinned, Muscular, full beards, tall and jaw-droppingly cute! Like 6" 3-4 tall.
OMG! I was stunned ..this guy is my dream man but as a 'Normal' Lagos babe(shakara full ground) I didn't say shit to him...we only exchanged pleasantries, told him he looked good  and that was it.

I was meant to stay, there for a week cos my parents were out if town and I need company, so I packed to go meet cousin! Plus he stays very close to my office.
The cute friend was also staying for the weekend. Lucky me yh?

We got talking....he actually seemed like a perfect gentleman (in my head I was already planning marriage) lol.
He left on Sunday and we continued our friendship on social media.(WhatsApp cos we exchanged contacts).
 I'm 27 and he's  30 by the way...he's Yoruba, and I am too.

We're from the same state, we have a lot in common(my cousin had good things to say about him BTW,... Unlike some of his friends).
He'd take me out on weekends (I remember we went out for 6 consecutive Saturdays)
We'd face-time all through the night.

I was already in love (he asked me out though, and I said yes....I liked him and the fact that my cousin recommended him, made me like him more).
This guy is everything a Lady would ask for in a man.
He's a gentleman, funny, caring, sweet, and he is doing financially OK, he's now AA again (I'm AS and I've had to let go of most of my relationships  cos of this genotype issues).

In my mind, I'm like 'Na my final bus top be this o.
He's not a pervert like mist of the guys we have. He didn't even talk about sex and I stayed for the weekend twice. We only kissed and chilled. No sex, no sex attempts.
Mad ass self control... Nigga thrills me!!!
Whenever I try to off his pants or anything, he'd pull back, or tell me to chill. (Na man dey do pant offing for ladies o...but here I am...offing man pant.)

So one day in his apartment, we were kissing and started touching him(to know if baba is not impotent sha) he didn't pull back or tell me to chill this time...na so I grab dick o!!! Massive something. Just how I like it!!!(in my mind...another plus)
I sha gave him a nice head!!!.. Cumman see the plenty load wet come out.(He didn't try to stop me o... Infact he enjoyed it, cos he was holding my head, and pressing my throat so that his dick can go deeper and drove him nuts! He even told me it was great... Best head he ever had! He was so excited that he didn't want to stop kissing me! We didn't have sex tho just the oral)
So when I left his place....I noticed he became cold towards me...dry texts, no more face-time, just boring WhatsApp chats! No one answers, eventually he stopped talking to me...avoided me physically.... He stopped replying to my texts...ignored me ever everywhere on SM. I felt bad for months..
Fast forward to February 17th, I was at novare with a friend, and we ran into each other again.
Gosh, he looked better clean haircut, very lovely shoes, smelled nice. I didn't want to let go when he hugged me.

Apparently he was meeting a client, so he had to go.
Few hours later, he texted to meet up cos we were both still at the mall.
I left my friend, who was with another friend to meet him.(Since I had no business with the other friend)
After then, we got talking again, he no genuine reason as to why he stopped talking to me. But he apologized and we made up.(at least in mind).

We started going out every weekend again..
He even took me out on my birthday(cumman see plenty PDA), got me surprise cakes (he got my favourite), gifts and other things. Best birthday ever!!!(still no sex tho).
So one weekend he invited me to his place, there was a party.

I met his friends, some I knew and some I didn't know.
We had fun, we drank,I got tipsy I couldn't drive (well he thought I couldn't drive) so he drove me home and we chilled in the car till his uber arrived.(we kissed,the whole time and it was magical).
He called me when he got home, and we talked on the phone for a very long while,....in my mind, the live was stronger.

Why am writing you is that this my 'boyfriend' tried to hook me up with one of his friends from the party!
Just two days, after that long emotional kiss!
I was mad initially, but then I realized he didn't like me as much as i did, or thought he did, to have decided to hurt mu feelings that much, so I started hanging out with the guy(his loss yh?)

We talked everyday... Went on lunches everyday, free food, free shopping and free driver (please don't call me hungry...I earn 6figs and I own a good car. It's just amazing that I don't have to spend or drive all the time...no be everybody get that kain luck)... Nigga was on my neck tho.

I began to like him,cos they share almost the same qualities,(looks not bad, he works and earns well, he dresses well, speaks good English, single, makes me laugh, and he's AA). Above all, mad ass communication skill.

In short we started dating and everything has been rosy between us(we've had sex tho and we are still good).
The bigger problem now is, Nigga A wants me back.
He said he pulled back from us cos he presumed  I was a whore, with the way I handles his dick(his words-- "the way you handled my dick was just too professional"... Only whores give that kind of good head...no offence babe, but I had to run).

I wasn't mad cos everyone is entitled to their own opinions but Hello??? Is it now a bad thing to give my boyfriend (someone I love) a crazy ass well-deserved blow job??
He was just too perfect, and I tot he deserved it.

I guess, he sees how happy I am with nigga B and he had a rethink and he's not comfy with me being with his friend, instead.
Now he text me all the time now! Ends all texts with love emojis... Tries to kiss me, wherever and whenever he sees me(I pull back tho).
The way he even looks at me...
What do I do?
We see very often, I still like him in a way... I'm still attracted to him.
I know he loves and cares for me, but what will happen to my boyfriend.

Do I tell my boyfriend everything? What if he breaks up with me?
Was I wrong to have accepted to go out with his friend?
I feel like this is about to get messy...
Pls what do I do?.

Thanks for reading

Pls comment..

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