HOW TO KILL THE SPIRIT OF ANGER NATURALLY






Do you really get angry? Do you have temper problems
Then this tips will help you.

Anger is a universal problem. It is not limited to one age group, culture, race, economic level, social status, educational background, or any other.

As we all know that anger is a spirit, and it is very destructive.

Anger is hard to hide. A person who struggles with unresolved anger and wrath will demonstrate a variety of behaviors that indicate his inner battle.

In fact it is capable of destroying what someone have worked for or built for years.
Most of these had been sacrificed on the altar of anger burning furnace.
Life time Career, Homes, Relationships, Properties, Lives, Good opportunities, Business, etc.

Anger, has sent so many people, to early graves and  life time imprisonment.

What’s important for you to know, Beloved, is that anger distorts your perception – of everything including all of your relationships.
What’s a fact – is that – anger – if left unattended – will, can and presently manifests itself in disease and illness in our bodies, even our loved ones.

Former U.S. Surgeon General Everett Koop said anger is the number one health problem. Did you know that one-third of all women who come to emergency room or doctors’ offices for immediate care is because they’ve been battered – that’s irrational anger.





This Tips work Perfectly, you can try it.

1) Whenever you are angry,  Keep quiet first, and count from 1- 10. Before you say or even take any action.


2) Whenever, very very very angry, keep quiet. Breath in and out for 10 seconds, do it repeatedly for at least three times, and while you're at it, count from one to hundred in your mind, before you say or touch anything, or take any action at all..

This exercise works like magic, you will find that before you count up to 30 you will calm down.


3) When you are calm, after being angry. Make sure you grab a cup or two cups of cold water.

This will help you realize how exhaustive anger is.
This can also help you to review the matter, from another angle.

4) When you're in the presence of someone, or in the midst people making you angry, before saying or taking any action.
This will help you control your anger any time any day.

But one thing you must know is that you are in charge of your emotions.
And you have the right to decide, how you allow someone to make you feel... Accept this lightly and you're good to go.

The goal of an abuser [anger as a spiritual root] is to continually destabilize his or her victim – emotionally, spiritually and physically. The goal of satan as the source of all of the anger stronghold is to destroy and kill you [even if that means you kill and destroy other people literally or figuratively through your words, actions, lack of action or silence.] We can easily and logically conclude that any person [Christian] who has the stronghold of anger definitely has problems in all relationships [eventually].

I used to have a quick temper problems, which caused me a loose lots of things in my life.

But the moment I realize this truth that  " I am in charge of my emotions, I chose how I allow someone to make me feel".

I found out that it doesn't really worth it, I also learnt to forgive people.

Not because they deserve it, but for myself.

And that's the best way to find peace in my heart, and heal from deep within.

Remember people can only treat you the way they feel about themselves.

Stop being angry at life and at yourself or even people around you.

Anger can definitely be passed down generationally [as can any other stronghold]. This anger stronghold is especially more applicable with people who have step parents and it is also very likely to be passed down from your biological parents [even if you were adopted]. So basically, if you are breathing, this stronghold could have been passed down to you.

If you’ll be kind, Beloved, to get a sheet of paper and a pen to answer the following questions. Please put a check mark on your paper for each statement that applies to you.

1 – I feel relatively happy and then I’m struck with a mood change.

2 – I raise my voice loudly to communicate something that I’m emphatic about.

3 – I’ve expressed impatience with others and oftentimes play this out in exasperation asking, Why can’t they get a clue?

4 – I often anticipate another person’s predictable behavior and I become angry when I see that anticipation being fulfilled.

5 – I become angry when others people can’t read my mind.

6 – I become angry when I’m not recognized for my contribution.

7 – I become angry when I feel that I’m being disrespected or my words are not being taken seriously or when I feel like I’m not being heard. [This is real issue with the prophetic community, them feeling like they’re not being heard. One of the surest ways the enemy comes at prophetic people is to make them feel like they are not being heard or respected.]

8 – I know I’m angry because of the language inside of my head.

9 – I know I’m angry when I don’t want to hear what the other person has to say.

10 – I get angry when others do not make me a priority.

11 – I get angry when I do not have what I need.

12 – I get angry when people don’t do what I say.

13 – I get angry when I can’t control a given situation.

14 – I get angry about suggestions that I’ve done something wrong.

15 – I get angry when I feel added pressure on my job or with finances or pressure with personal responsibilities or even expectations others might have of me.

16 – I easily become defensive about myself and about others.

17 – I see the faults in others quickly.

18 – I look for opportunities to bring up old, hurtful subjects. In other words, I keep beating that old dead horse.

19 – I find myself speaking negatively or critically of others.

20 – The phrase, I don’t deserve this, goes through my head frequently.

21 – I say I’ve forgiven, but I continue to reprocess the same subjects.

22 – I get frustrated easily about the perceived faults and mistakes of others.

23 – I become impatient easily.

24 – I feel like my life is harder than everybody else’s and it’s probably because I’ve been given a raw deal.


Now Beloved reader, total you marks.

If you have 1 – 6 checks for anger, you’re in the low percentile range of the anger stronghold.
If you have 7 – 12 checks for anger, you’re in the average percentile range.
If you have 13 – 18 checks for anger, you’re getting up there.
If you have 19 – 24 checks for anger, you and the anger stronghold are extremely well acquainted.

My point is that, you can deal with your temper, no matter, the kind of level you're.
I mean no matter your score, from the above assessment.

How long are you going to allow anger, to destroy everything around you?
Am sure it's not allowing you to enjoy this beautiful life that God gave you, to live and enjoy to the fullest.

Did you know that most anger is masked, even in you? You don’t even have any idea how much anger is in the person sitting next to you at work, at church, at home, in your family or at the gym.

Beloved, there are many things in this world I don’t know, but one thing I do know is anger. Why do I write this and share it with you so authoritatively? Because anger owned me for a long, long time. As a fact, as I’ve typed this article the Holy Spirit answered a question I’ve been wondering for a real time. Thank You Holy Spirit.

So chose to love your self, by choosing how you feel at every time.

Remember to laugh things off... Don't let ANGER destroy your life.

My point is that, you can get angry, but be slow to anger.
Think well before saying anything or taking any actions.
Words, when spoken in anger can never be taken back.
So control your tongue, mind what you say to people.

As a matter of fact, before you say anything to anyone, say it to yourself first, and check how you'd feel if that was said to you.

May God help you....

Thanks for reading.

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