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QUALITIES OF A MATURED MAN, IN ANY RELATIONSHIP

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#LADIES... Every man has their qualities, they are unique in their own ways... You can't get the best from RELATIONSHIP if you keep leaving them, stop comparing your previous relationships with your present one, causing the future relationship to be in total uncertainty!!! Not all men are the same, and you're just not the first to experience hurts and pain!!... Everyone does, some persons did!!!!!... The main reasons why you should leave a RELATIONSHIP... 1.) IMMATURITY: some men are just babies... Always asking for more, even when you've given them your all... They like acquiring every girl they come across.. always crying over every mistakes you make!!!... And please stop dating 22-27 year old boys, 80% of them can't produce maturity... And have not defined themselves yet!! 2.) INCAPACITY: some men are literally kids when it comes to sustainability... Relationship to them is fun and esctacy... No capacity to accommodate a woman and sustain her for the res...

LADIES YOU DON'T HAVE TO PROVE ANYTHING TO YOUR EX

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The realization that you don't have to prove anything to your ex will set you free to run after better things. I've seen many people mess  themselves up because they need to prove to their ex that he/she made a mistake by leaving. There was this girl I used to know when I was in the university. She was a cool, calm and collected lady. She was responsible and simple. Then, she got into a relationship with a guy in our department. I must say that he never respected her. It was all bush shit. I used to wonder why she had to stay in that relationship till he called it off. Why she give him that luxury I don't know. Well, he broke broke with her, she was broken and desperately needed him back. That was when I realized that her situation was hopeless. I stopped advising her, and would only ask if she would eat fried rice whenever she showed up in my house and start crying. She totally ruined herself when she decided to prove a point to her ex. She started with he...

THINGS THAT CAN CAUSE REGRET AT OLD AGE

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When younger we make various choices without the future in mind. Sometimes those choices bite us in our mid-life. These are some of the things one might regret when they're older. 1. *MARRYING THE WRONG PERSON* When you're young, check your motives for marrying. Don't marry to copy your peers, or for social standing or out of pressure. Marry for love and companionship, marry the right person, marry your best friend. For if you marry the wrong person or for the wrong reasons, you will have to put up with that person the rest of your life. Things might get worse between you two; then depression, physical abuse, affairs, pain, shame, court cases, bitterness will define your mid-life years all because you chose the wrong one. Things will get worse when children are involved. Make the right choice of a spouse when you are young. 2. *THE OPPORTUNITIES YOU NEVER SEIZED AND THE RISKS YOU DID'NT TAKE* When you are younger many doors will open, you w...

HOW TO KILL THE SPIRIT OF ANGER NATURALLY

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Do you really get angry? Do you have temper problems Then this tips will help you. Anger is a universal problem. It is not limited to one age group, culture, race, economic level, social status, educational background, or any other. As we all know that anger is a spirit, and it is very destructive. Anger is hard to hide. A person who struggles with unresolved anger and wrath will demonstrate a variety of behaviors that indicate his inner battle. In fact it is capable of destroying what someone have worked for or built for years. Most of these had been sacrificed on the altar of anger burning furnace. Life time Career, Homes, Relationships, Properties, Lives, Good opportunities, Business, etc. Anger, has sent so many people, to early graves and  life time imprisonment. What’s important for you to know, Beloved, is that anger distorts your perception – of everything including all of your relationships. What’s a fact – is that – anger – if left unattended – wil...

HOW TO HEAL FROM EMOTIONAL AND TRAUMATIC PAINS

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What is Emotional and psychological trauma? It is the result of extraordinarily stressful events that shatter your sense of security, making you feel helpless in a dangerous world. Traumatic experiences often involve a threat to life or safety, but any situation that leaves you feeling overwhelmed and isolated can be traumatic, even if it doesn’t involve physical harm. It’s not the objective facts that determine whether an event is traumatic, but your subjective emotional experience of the event. The more frightened and helpless you feel, the more likely you are to be traumatized. What is Psychological and Mental pain or Emotional pain ? It is an unpleasant feeling (a suffering) of a psychological, non-physical origin. A pioneer in the field of suicidology, Edwin S. Shneidman, described it as "how much you hurt as a human being. It is mental suffering; mental torment." "There is dangerous traffic on life’s highway and much that can harm us, leaving u...

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WOMEN DON'T FORGET THIS

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This is one of the best posts I've read about women... You have to read it to the end... it's worth it!! WOMAN. . . . . . . . . When God created woman he was working late on the 6th day....... An angel came by and asked." Why spend so much time on her?" The lord answered. "Have you seen all the specifications I have to meet to shape her?" She must function on all kinds of situations,  She must be able to embrace several kids at the same time,  Have a hug that can heal anything from a bruised knee to a broken heart,  She must do all this with only two hands,"  She cures herself when sick and can work 18 hours a day" THE ANGEL was impressed" Just two hands.....impossible! And this is the standard model?" The Angel came closer and touched the woman"  "But you have made her so soft, Lord".  "She is soft", said the Lord,  "But I have made her strong. You can't imagine what she c...

FIND OUT WHY MOST WOMEN ARE DEMISEXUALS(No woman hates sex 1)

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FIND OUT WHY MOST WOMEN ARE DEMISEXUALS In an age in which we are constantly one swipe away from our next relationship, the idea of romance is rushed and convenient in a way that it never has been before. Apparently, you should be able to follow your gut, or some mystical inner voice that tells you whether you're right for that person. But it's impossible for some people to operate that way. If you've ever found yourself wondering what it means for someone to be a  demisexual. and whether or not the term applies to you, then read on. Demisexuality is just one of many shades on the scale of asexuality, but put into layman's terms, it's the difficulty in feeling sexual attraction for someone you are not close to or friends with first. According to asexuality.org: A DEMISEXUAL is someone who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone. It's more commonly seen in but by no means confined to romant...

BELIEVE ME MUM (A touching sad story)

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           "BELIEVE ME MUM" A lot of lessons to learn & I pray we will not make the greatest mistakes of our lives, Pls read to the end. . BELIEVE ME MUM Episode 1 A young lady retched and bent over the toilet bowl. The pain and nausea twisted her stomach until she couldn’t breathe. The stuff came up and burst out, all yellow and slimy and tasting of bile. She knew more was coming, so she sat on the bathroom floor waiting. In the interval, the door banged and her mother’s voice asked her to open up. Seconds later, she was standing over her, a look of anger on her face. She had just begun feeling the wrenching of her gullet when suddenly her mother gave her a resounding slap, She fell on the floor and that was the trigger for another outburst of her stomach’s contents. When she rose her mother was waiting for her. Tears filled her eyes as she tried to ask her mother for help. She didn't know what was really happening to her. Then the...

WAYS TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR VAGINA TO AVOID INFECTION

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HOW TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR VAGINA EVERYDAY TO AVOID OFFENSIVE SMELL, INFECTION OR ABNORMAL DISCHARGE. It is important to know the dos and don’ts when it comes to v2ginal care in order to prevent infection, odour and irritation. A smelly v2gina can be very embarrassing and humiliating in many different situations, both casual and intimate. 1. Wash the v2gina at least twice daily. If you work out, sweat excessively, or are involved in some other sweat- inducing activity, then wash after each activity. Make sure you change your undergaments at least daily and wash them in hot water to kill any stubborn bacteria. This will help to get rid of sweat and bacteria may have been trapped, leaving you feeling and smelling better. 2. Do not douche; don’t use antiseptic soaps or body scrubs to wash your v2gina. These products make the v2gina unfavourable for good bacteria and impact on v2gina health causing candida super-infection (the one popularly called “toilet infection”). 3. A...

A BIG LESSON FOR THE YOUTH

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Big Lesson to the Youth Funke is 9-Months pregnant and her husband Bode cannot wait to be a father, if you do not know Bode before now, you will think his love for his life started when she got pregnant. Far from it, Bode has been like this since the day she said YES to his proposal. She can remember how he prepares breakfast a day after their wedding, she loved it but she thought it will not last. Ever since that day, He has always wake up before her to prepare breakfast. No matter how busy he was a day before, or how busy the day will be, he always finds time to prepare breakfast before leaving for office. The aroma of the soup awakens a heavily pregnant Bolaji from the bed, she walks to the kitchen to find her man returning the pot of egusi to it's place. "I am just making sure the taste is perfect for my baby," he said as he moves towards his wife who only smiles at him. Before the smile goes off her face, her lips were met with a wa...

ROUGH SEX OR SLOW AND STEADY?

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Loving passionate sex is very okay... I mean it always comes naturally. The chemistry and all. And the peace that it gives from deep within. The comfort and fulfillment in having deep love making sessions... Especially with the scented candles placed in strategic places in the dark room, both of you naked. With sweet and calming music playing in the background. After having a warm bath, and getting massaged, a skin to skin oily massage from your partner. But there's nothing wrong or odd is being aggressive and dominant during sex. However, when you want to indulge in such.. You must learn how to choke, How to slap/spank a woman's ass properly. How to take over too, and use your aggression to please your partner... But over the years, or even as you advance in marriage. Being aggressive in sex should become, more appealing to you. That moment of really giving it to your partner, that wants pleasure mixed with pain. Like Choking, slapping,  Put agai...